Love And Be Loved, What Is True Happiness?

After all: Love should come from two sides, only from two sides can love truly be love. Love only comes from one side and only suffering, making "I-I-love" suffer and "I-love-me" also hurts.
This question is raised in the minds of so many people, including us - the non-children and the no-adults.
Who in life does not once embrace difficult questions to explain?
Who in life does not once smile when thinking about someone, remembering the eyes, smiles, even the smallest gestures, and then realizes: I have loved "I-I-love".
Someone in life who never once caught his eye, becomes a permanent nostalgia of someone, and then realizes: he has a "love-me"

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All are love! But, how to be completely in love? Must choose "person-I-love" or "-I-love"?
Choose who-I-love!
That is the opinion of Hamlet Truong in the book Everyone and Everyone: “But sometimes, I should also imagine in advance when I will wake up next to a person that I have nothing to be passionate about. I don't like the smell of their hair, I don't remember what their body is. I forget to take care of myself, because there is no one person enough to want to be beautiful, to be better every day for them ”
Because we know that we love our lover, so Hamlet Truong thinks he will love his lover because: even when we love them, we have pain, but in that pain there comes a happiness.



many times more than when I personally choose someone I have no feeling when living with!
Choosing someone I love will be painful, but it will be the most beautiful, rewarding pain in this lifetime.
Every child is born with crying instead of laughing, that's because: this life is always the biggest pain. People have to deal with pain all the time, living in pain whether short or long throughout their lives. Living in a life is painful, so what is the pain of one more time because of love?
The person we love, always before them, we will also have new vibrations and emotions.
Although knowing that they will not reciprocate their feelings, even knowing they will forever wait for nothingness, even knowing it will hurt, they will still love them to have those feelings. One-I-love is like an addictive substance. We try, we are addicted, we are always addicted, while many people stay away from that "drug", choose for themselves safety, choose for themselves the one-love-me Because choosing the one we love is the opium choice, we will fall in love, but there will be times when we blindly enter into our life unnecessary troubles.



One girl told me a little bit:
A man with two wives in a wealthy family. When they default on their debt, they leave, leaving only him with nothing. There was a woman waiting for him, always loving him, waiting for him all his youth. You married her, she was like the only woman left in the world who loved you. She worked to pay his debt, but every day, he drank, beat her brutally. Although many people advised her, she still decided not to break up and still loved him - a blind love! And until now, that story has not ended yet!
You see, in the above story, was the woman too blindly "addicted" to her-loved one? She was brave, resigned to the pain to trade the emotions in her heart that few people dare to try. Many people would say she was stupid, but each person's behavior was derived from a certain motive. Let her "get" miserable because of her-love!
Do you dare to try this addictive kind?
Or choose my lover!
Old grandparents, sometimes even our parents, they come together, sometimes not out of love, but by the arrangement of the parents.



My mother still said: “Living together for a long time, even though there is no love, but it also means, we are very attached! Sometimes to live forever together, love is not necessary, love has the same power! "
Not loving each other, living together will have love, but "love". That "love" is formed from marriage, responsibility, children, it is like a solid bond binding both sides. "Love" makes you safe, but it's so faint!
Just watch many movies, typically the MV "We belong together" by Mariah Carey or the MV with the same content there are many kinds of scenes like: The wedding took place at the church, suddenly a young man came running. with the large distribution vehicle, stopping the car, quickly rushing in, holding the bride's hand and then leading away, both happily smiling across the car, walking away leaving the groom, family on both sides with an expression " as dumb as possible. That "strawberry robbery" scene can make many people excited! That girl was truly freed!
So in real life, how many people could be as lucky as the other girl: get out of the boring married life before the bonds begin?
Yes! Life is not like a movie, and you know, the end of a marriage without-love is divorce, breakup, if both sides still have children, it is a tragedy embedded in the minds of children.
Stop thinking.

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