Marriage Problem Between Marrying A Rich Old Man Or A Poor Young Man

I am 25 years old this year, working in a state agency. Earlier this year I fell in love with a friend from the same hometown, 26 years old this year.
I am working in Saigon and I am still in Da Nang to get my university degree, then I will go to Saigon to work with you. On the Lunar New Year, I led you to introduce your family, family line and offered to get married in the near future.
Recently, there was a person with full economic and material conditions, having been divorced from his wife for about 15 years and offered to marry me through the matchmaking of my boss

. That person is about 50 years old, a big job. My cousin also knows that person. My family wants me to marry that person because he has all the conditions so I don't have to suffer But I feared that if I married him and gave birth to children, when my children had not grown up, my father would be far from heaven, poor for the children.



My lover currently has nothing in hand, me and he are still in love. Looking forward to expert advice for you. Thank you. (Star)
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Reply:
Love life and marriage have a lot of choices, some choose beauty, some choose deep feelings, some choose a career, someone chooses morality and someone chooses money ... depending on the feelings, thinking, calculating and the circumstances for how people decide
You are wondering between a high school classmate in the same hometown, 26 years old this year, with a 50 year old person, a big position, fully qualified economic conditions, has been divorced from his wife for about 15 years.



This is a very difficult problem to solve. If you are pursuing love, you will definitely have to choose someone of the same age. Although economic conditions are difficult, "yes, husband and wife will slap the East Sea".
If you choose a 50-year-old person, it is very difficult to "get along well with a husband and wife" because old age has very different personalities, lifestyles, and ways of thinking from youth, so there may be emotional and rational conflicts when living together. However, in return he has a great position, has material conditions so that you do not have to suffer materially.
In human suffering, there is material suffering and mental suffering. If you marry a 50-year-old person, you will not suffer materially but will suffer mentally, on the contrary, marrying a 26-year-old person will not suffer mentally but will suffer materially. So which one do you choose?
Not to mention how children of 50 years old are, these issues are also quite complicated.



You wonder about "giving birth to a child, when the child has not grown up, the father is far from heaven" is also a problem. More importantly, when he is old and you are too young, the physiological problems can also cause discord. These reasons let you choose love or material.
Review your psychology, if you are romantically you should not marry 50 years old, because romance can make you very emotionally distressed that can lead to family breakdown. If you are an accepting person, you can marry a 50-year-old, because then you do not mind when being with the elderly.
As for a 26-year-old boyfriend, if you have true love, all the economic difficulties of knowing and worrying will be able to overcome together because love is the power for people to go to the future.
Good wisdom.
Prof.



Dr. Vu Gia Hien
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