Lesson 10 – When Your Wife Is Pregnant
Yesterday, at the front door of the hospital neonatal room, I saw a man who had just come up from his office and looked at me fondly. The little boy, redder, kept crying by his hand. He hurriedly returned it to the midwife, then honestly "ok, she carried it, I might hold it so it cried".
Man, before you decide to "be a father", when you hear the news "about to be a father", and when your child stays in his wife's womb for nine months, what a beautiful time if you spend a few minutes every day "Pregnant with his wife".
First of all, he needs to determine, since his wife was pregnant, that his life at least for the next 18 years cannot be his own. He will be an architect, engineer, doctor, mechanic, driver, laborer and many other occupations (and, of course, unpaid work) to care for, nurture and teach a human being. I - of course, had no experience as a Father - but learned some pleasant ways in the parenting journey so I wrote it down for his reference (and note - just for reference).
Face your fears
Scared, he has the right to fear
Then I was afraid I could not afford it to have enough rice to eat, clothes to wear ...
Solution: you should plan for having children; prepare for health, finance ... Talk to your dad, your brother or your friends, or anyone with experience you feel confident
Notice - take more care of your wife while she is pregnant
Tell her you don't feel that she's ugly or even prettier when you're pregnant.
Although her skin is dark, even though morning sickness makes her pale, despite hormonal changes that make acne appear all over her body, even though her "waist 56" is 156, she is still beautiful in his eyes. it's not good to lie, but never mind).
Take a picture of your baby growing up every day in the womb! If you really do not have the talent of photography and cannot feel how beautiful the pregnancy is, you can count on the photographer. Mother elected beautiful and happy, then you will be healthy and intelligent. This reason is enough to record the period of pregnancy with beautiful photos.
I don't advocate eating a lot during pregnancy, there's no double eating, but if you're looking for good food, your favorite wife or want to eat on a rainy night (for added thrills) then fully support.
The time of early morning sickness can be very relaxing for one person and terrible for others. If you accidentally fall into the "horrible" side, you help your loved one by: pouring a glass of warm water after she vomited, cleaning the "battlefield" for her to rest, every morning to make her Have fun with soothing cuddles .
.. Back massage when she has back pain.
"Participate" in the wives' pregnancy
Feel the baby machine, pedal; talk to children; shopping for clothes - newborn items
It may not be all but it is arranged for taking wife to have prenatal check-up 1-2 times during pregnancy. An ultrasound of the morphological survey (around weeks 21-22) is the best occasion, because the baby's face, arms and legs will be seen. If you don't go with you, you also need to ask about the progress of your pregnancy because it doesn't always go well. When having problems, be sure to find out and handle with your wife (such as amniocentesis for Down syndrome for example).
Take antenatal classes, short courses on newborn care.
Read books with his wife about fetal and newborn development, labor and childbirth; about whether he is willing to be present at the labor of his wife in the delivery room. Being present or not, in fact, does not show courage or complete love. If you do not prepare yourself, maybe you will be obsessed for a long time because of the fact that it is not gentle and smooth.
Give your child the same name.
And ... whatever he thought of and believed it was necessary.
Sometimes just sitting next to your wife and not saying anything is good already!
This is a very sincere word, when you are not ready to have children, you should face your lover / wife (expect these 2 people to be the same) to find a safe solution, do not sing the song of a diving fish. I still believe all men love their children more than their mothers, maybe they are more quiet. So, for whatever reason, don't leave her alone when she learns she is pregnant.
I love the clumsy, clumsy slang of newly born men. But really, it is also unhappy when anything is unknown. Because, the heavy part, the most dangerous part - even in the face of life and death, the Mother has done it, the reason why the Father does not "learn" what is possible to prove "the father is the shelter." you and me ”. *
There is no "hard theory" to guide a man to being a good Father, if he doesn't have love for his children.
I wish you "safety and safety".
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