Lesson 18 – If You Have To Ask For Sperm
If I have to beg for sperm ...
... then don't sing the song "If you have to be apart .
After the necessary tests, I explained to them cautiously "if you want to treat, you need sperm". Immediately, he looked at me with eyes ... hard to describe. A little angry, a little sad, a little disappointed, a little skeptical .
My wife stopped, short tears flowed. What I instructed later on the procedure for sperm asking may buzzing through the ears and disappear.
Those eyes are so obsessive. I understand your feelings, so there are some words to please.
Who should read this post?
Those who are trying to have a child whose husband does not have sperm (also called a chimpanzee - talk about the cause - only discuss the doctor's final conclusion)
Who should not read?
Those who still think "being a man must have sperm".
People who do not yet understand being a father in addition to donating a sperm still need something.
Why so? Because reading onward means you are reading the mind of someone who doesn't share your views, and then miserable each other with bad words. I really do not want to bring sadness, anger for those who have a different view of things.
What should I do when the doctor concludes that I do not have sperm?
If you have just had semen test for the first time, you should go to the facilities that have a male medical examination for advice and conducting intensive tests. Who knows, maybe just a little trouble of creation, and you are completely capable of being born.
After doing everything and concluding that sperm cannot be found, treating children has an additional "finding sperm donor" step.
Will I use sperm directly from the person I am applying for?
Impossible, because the law does not allow.
What is the application process?
First, you find someone for sperm. This person could be anyone willing to donate sperm, including blood ties with the wife (because if done lawfully, certainly will not use this sperm to treat).
Volunteers donate sperm will be assigned blood test, sperm test.
If the conditions are met (normal blood test, qualified sperm), the sperm donor will take 3 sperm samples, the time of taking will depend on this person.
Three months later, the sperm donor will have another blood test, if the results are normal, complete the procedure for sperm.
These sperm samples will be encoded and stored in sperm banks.
Couples who ask for sperm will be able to use other sperm in the bank, swapping on the principle of anonymity. That is, the giver and the receiver are not allowed to know each other.
Why so complicated and complicated?
Long verbal but not so much. The main things are to protect you, to protect the future children of your spouse. If you're afraid of trouble taking shortcuts, tomorrow there's even more trouble.
If I ask for a sperm, my child?
Genetically, I agree in half.
Legally, the children of his wife were born as his children. Baby's birth name is his, he is his father. Other things, mainly due to his own thoughts.
This thought is the least barrier of couples, the heaviest, they flee on the road to find happiness. Nobody expected this, but what if it happened?
From a personal point of view, giving birth to a child, the father doesn't just contribute sperm. Being a father, it means that you must want to have a child, you have enough energy and money to raise the child. Sperm is just the first step in embryo formation. When your child is born, if it is your sperm, you will attach yourself to the responsibility.
And love? He would only love him when he was hard at work all day at the company and he kept crying and crying no matter the night; when he had a fever today he didn't suck, he didn't sleep; when it took papa to make him cry; when all day long he rolled on his life without getting tired at all because it was hot late at night, when the doctor injected the medicine that he was very sorry for ... He was a husband, a father, a true man in In society, how many people count sperm? Men, who have a generous heart, carry, have an open, generous vision, are always a prop for their wives and children, and contribute to the community and society. Happiness in the journey of raising children, watching children grow up every day, will erase selfish thoughts. If so, do you care about how to make your children happy because there is a father who gives me the sky and the vast sea to fly.
Well then, you didn't look at me with those eyes! My responsibility is to accompany him to the final goal, having a child for him and his wife to come home. How, please let us take care.
I don't have enough strength, not enough strength to change and shake you. I just hope, the outsider will have a different look, not the dead end. And in the end, I just hope you don't blame your fate, don't be discouraged. Because the person next to him - his wife - needs him to accompany him on the long road ahead .....
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