Seeing her eyes eagerly looking at your ice cream sticks, the father gave a suggestion but I quickly refused to want to be a 'good son' of my mother.0 of the year. parents. But it seems that the concept of "good children, understanding" with many young families is now being pushed up in negative directions. A story that happened Shenzhen Province, China caused many parents to think about their parenting methods
. Catering, a young father took a 3-and-a-half-year-old son. When walking through a road, the father noticed that he looked at the eagerly ice cream sticks, asking: "Do you want to eat?" However, the child swallowed the restraint and said: "Daddy, I don't eat. I said I wasn't good for my health"
Nghe see the answer, the father startled, then sadly , Think and blame themselves. Why is a 3-year-old child who did not dare to express his real thoughts, just to please adult? When growing up, how can I have enough courage to be myself? After that, the father bought a cream for children. Looking at me happy to eat, his father gently said and stressed: "No matter whether you eat or not eat ice cream, it doesn't really affect your health. If you later want to eat, please say the desire . Dad would agree with me. I want you to be yourself instead of a "good baby". Illustration. When the baby is over and asked, "What is yourself"? " The father happily answered: "It means that I learn how to brave ways to show what I really want to" go to bed sleep, recall the daytime story with me, father Still not withdrawal, and feel confused: How can I be so simple? 30-year-old itself still doesn't really understand "Be yourself" really ", and should teach your child to learn how to" be yourself "? Teach children" is yourself "- a difficult education problem if Interview accidentally the fathers and mothers on the street with the question: "Do you want me to be yourself?" Most parents do not hesitate to answer: "Of course yes!". Even many parents express their desires "must be themselves". But in life, many people complain: why our children are less than independent, do not dare to express their thinking Really, no opinion? In fact, it is not a young impossible to be yourself, but exactly the parents have never given their children to have the opportunity to "be themselves"
Many times the children say the desire, but again Refluding this time to another time. Gradually young did not say and nor thought want to say anymore. Many parents showed respect, encouraging children to express their real thoughts, but when their opinions oppose, they or rejected bluntly, or beggar. Things that gradually make babies depressed. After a lot of disappointments, children do not know how to listen to their parents or say themselves. And when the child abandoned the opinion to pleasure his parents, we were invaded: "I don't determine anything, are always parents who choose to replace them." On this issue, a Taiwanese educator said: When I gave my students the most popular choices, the most common answer I heard was: "I don't know what I want to choose." "Want good for me" is the love of love Many parents. They hope their children come to the destination successfully. But they forgot that every child is an independent individual, with a voice, thinking privately. A person who has never had the opportunity to be herself will not know who they are! Many adults are also children who never get "as ourselves" in the story, the 30-year-old father is extremely confused , I don't know how to teach your 3-year-old son. Because of the fact, he also realized himself unprecedented itself. "Is yourself" After that when the story is shared, many adults have to admit: In fact, we are also Are children who cannot "be themselves". Adults are also unprecedented children. "Is yourself". The image of the reality, quite a lot of people, even though it comes from the family's family, but he does not dare to have politics. The cause of the problem can be summed up at one point: that are the children who have deepened the opposes of the parents are because of "good for children", what excuses they oppose? Obeyed! The saying "because it's good for me" is the biggest "shackle" in the maturity of every child. Young to learn how to "be yourself", starting from my parents "is the main I "let a child" is herself "is the core of human maturity and the core of education. Feeding children is also nurturing themselves. In fact, every adult is like a "big child". When raising children, adults are also healing scars in their hearts. So how can children learn how to "be themselves"? The best way, the parents must also learn how to "be themselves" first. Life pressure many when we limit ourselves in social roles, are parents, husband and spouses, ... but we have a much greater role - that's "ch . Dịch vụ:
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