From the past, Vietnamese people had idioms 'mother-in-law, bride' with implicitly referring to particularly complex relationships, hidden in which many internal conflicts are difficult to solve.0: 00/5: 01 domain HAPPY IMPORT / INT. Bothy, but why after the wedding, every mother-in-law wants children to be in common? Feudal, traditional Vietnamese families together generations in a house. Families reached "Four Democratic Road" - Four life, my father and grandchildren was in a house, always considered the standard. Basically, the conflicts were removed
. Why? Because in that big family follow the rules, a one-way, invariant behavior, the older is the "holy" of the right. The male pedestrian is the pillar and power in the family. The ranks of the hierarchy is lower than the response, obeying the rituals and rituals of Confucianism
They consider it that it must be normal to follow so very few cases of protesting. The conceptions like "Exporting the price of Tong Phu, Tu Tong Tu" or "Tam Tong Tu Duc" always forced their daughter-in-law Practice unconditionally inherent rituals. They not only have to do their duty to be a wife, but more importantly they have to do well duty ... making strawberry, childhood, they are "certified" as a good wife. Because of that, the relationship between her mother-in-law, the bride looked at the surface very warm, not sometimes a big contradiction happened. However, the real inside is sometimes a lot of memories, conflicts. The neighborhood, neighboring neighbors cannot recognize because they have "the closure of each other". And, those families achieved that "four-way roads" that it was a bright example of the samples and happiness for all Vietnamese families
This day, only two generations together live together in a bounced family Born is not less conflict. Many psychologists argue that to explain these conflicts, this conflict needs a change from both sides to being a mother-in-law and a bride. Mother's mother must understand and protect your daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law must also know the respect, dexterity, sophistication in behaving with her mother-in-law. But the truth is that no one act like that. Many when understanding that is very good for both but in an era that I personally, the freedom, the equality of every human being upwards, no one will end anyone, even though it's sometimes Small chromosomes. Why is it possible to solve these conflicts? Can my mother-in-law have a good relationship? Of course, it is possible that if the concept of a happy family of Vietnamese people has a positive change. If we have long, we still admire, praise the types of families of "Four of the Tong Dong Street" and watch Lightly "cells of society" have two spouses and two unmarried children living together, they must now be aware of. The closeness, the key to the potential conflicts between the mother-in-law of the mulberry is in the matter of ... in general. Living together, every utensils and activities must be common. Go to meals, food and hobbies Watch movies to listen to music. All regulations on a common denominator for two generations are too different to age is not easy. It was the "pathogen" that generated dull conflicts difficult to solve. Many people said that the husband could be the referee to stop those conflicts well. But the parties in love with the husband, despite being sophisticated, how hard it is difficult to "arbitrarily" to bring the "peace" for that two sides, the optimal solution for the "mother-in-law The bride "can only be when married about the couple needs to stay separately. In particular, it will bring comfort to the two sides, especially from young couples. Particularly for the mother-in-law, it is necessary to think more openly, more modern, it will definitely be very happy. I think only, first of all will avoid unreasonable contradictions. Instead of having daily in touch, when they are separate when the whole week meets once. This will limit the conflicts in the family. The benefits that everyone can see clearly when wondering in a common or after marriage, the husband will have to fall into the scene of being a person who arises between her mother-in-law - she strawberry. There is a private space: where you are free to do what you like. Decide to eat home or eat outside, go to what time, wear the most comfortable suit. The young husband has a separate space for each other, creating romantic evening helps the couple relationship adds tight . In which both husband and wife will grow more because everyone has officially taken a role in his small family. The wife will be more advantageous, knowing and taking care of their children better. The husband with the pillar role needs to be more mature instead of relying on the parents' coverage. But clearly, it also means that young husbands face new difficulties: care issues, Educating children, financial problems and couple contradictions. When in particular also means that the bride is also less learned to add valuable experiences from her mother-in-law. Must enter the kitchen to cook and similar to the unified husband in raising children. And especially must fully autonomous v . Dịch vụ:
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