The biggest difficulty after deciding to divorce not about finance or affection between the two, but your children. This will come to the child as a big shock in life 9: 00/3: 24 south in the process of living under a roof, you tried to save my marriage, but can't take it Where to go, and decide to separate or divorce. But the biggest difficulty is not financial or affection between two people, but your children. This will come to children like a big shock even if they have doubted the absence of love in their homes for a long time. No rules are perfect and fast
. Each child is different and you will need to find the best way to notify your child, based on what you understand about your child. Here are some guidelines on how to tell children about divorce and separation: Together to tell the kids if you want to do this without causing more conflicts, then you should tell the children together. If you feel like you can try to think about the questions your child may be wondering and what are your answers to them
Particularly thinking about questions you don't answer and try to make a solution right in the beginning before meeting a child. For example, "Where will we live?" Or "Who will you be with?". As united with him about these problems, and it is important that you two don't blame each other. This is in the house of the two friends to hear this emotional information at home will make your child Feeling safer - if they are uncomfortable, they can show emotions, reach both of you or go to your familiar room. Spend at least a day to spend the shock, as well as giving you space to deal with unexpected reactions that happen and are always available with delay reactions. Your child and do not weaken when they cry. It is likely to cause much more painful after you set the wrong expectations that cannot be realized. They only extend the vulnerability. It is important to be consistent and does not make unrealistic promises - this is a very difficult task for parents, we never want to see their children hurt. At the same time, think about what your child can understand during this period
They are not adults, their awareness and understanding at a different stage with yours. Your child doesn't need to hear from either of you about the other person's error - Remember that you are the person they love and the most intimate in their current life - that will not change even when you two Where and what to do. Allow children to show their feelings can have tears, angry, van, promise, fear, courage and refuse. Don't argue or negotiate but tell your child to understand and you know it is very painful, but you will always be with support and care about children. You should also clarify that what happened not because of children or anything that I did, but decided between two people, father and mother. Make them aware of future arrangements. Plan in the future has been identified, let your child know what they know. Try to say everything and don't hide your children, but don't do them overwhelmed with too much information, just what you judge is that they can absorb and endure in the first stage of Divorce. Think of the age of each child and their level of understanding, based on that to set the problem, express and transmit to the child to understand and not hurt. Be specific but don't explain it too much. Try not to let them involve decisions unless they are large enough - and even note that many children still like to make their parents decide what is best for them. Quynh Nguyen / VOV.vn According to The Family Law Co. . Dịch vụ:
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