I was no longer patient to comfort every time she cried. Instead, I chose the way to leave the house.0 of: 00/3: 32 Magnetic men before, I think people often cried because of stress or suffering. But my wife is a special case. She cried in every debate
. Strangely, tears only appear when I uncomfortable with her. When she showed an uncomfortable attitude to me, she never cried. Many years endured this made me tired
We get into problems that cannot be solved. I am always the one who actively stops arguing. I said, I will wait until she stops crying and calm down, then we will continue. But even if I was so shrugged, she still cried another hour. I was so helpless that she had to sit down to comfort her. After that, we will hug each other and "heal" without solving the problem. I tried to talk to her about tears that were not the solution. But unfortunately, my frankness made her more sad. The illustration. Nearby, I was no longer patient enough to comfort every time she cried
Instead, I chose to leave the house. Before turning his back, I often say the sentence "we will talk later." But anytime I want to recall the problems to find a way to resolve, she earned the excuse to avoid. I'm too bored because I feel like I'm being unused. Even, I am lost in my own house because my wife doesn't share her feelings. I hate this feeling but also aware that part of this is my fault. I should have decided to relieve an emptiness earlier. I should not go through everything after a night. I have a deadlock, I texted my mother's mother, offering a secret appointment. I don't want to bother anyone, especially the private stories of the two spouses. I don't want 2 family parents to worry but I really have no other way. My mother's mother is a retired teacher. Her personality is quite quiet but I know that she is very or observed and always has your own view. She only opened when she felt necessary. When she decided to confess her problems, I saw her more like a friend than a mother-in-law. After listening to the whole story, she gently told me: "I should frankly talk to my wife. I think that she needs to know how her husband's feelings. Mom understand, I always postpone this because I think I'm too hard and feel like I'm a bad husband. But if I continue to leave These things passed there would be nothing to change and the child would be more and more frustrating, until the relationship could not save anymore. I've ever asked a little straight to the reason at How did she cry? Let him know how they feel when she behaves like that. I know, before, my parents have had to have such a conversation. But maybe, the habit or crying of her mother is the effect of mother. Youth, mother also criticized and blamed others. But when my wife and wife expressed my mother on this issue, she gradually changed. human tears I run away from reality, absolutely no effects to solve the problem. If you use tears to make the weapon put pressure on the enemy, it pushes 2 people away from each other. "Chat with his mother-in-law made me more confident, pouring the pressure I was someone with a mistake. I Feeling I was ready for a truly open and sincere conversation with my wife. This is likely to make her cry more but certainly, after calm down, she will feel The good thing in the relationship. I believe, I will not ruin the plan if writing emotions through a message or a letter. This form will make her welcome from a lot and not shocked. In the worst case, I still have another help: Calling my mother's mother. She promised to be my ally in this story. Kieu Linh / Vietnamese Women . Dịch vụ:
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